Perception vs. Reality....Black vs. White

So This Story is spreading like a wild fire in the office.

To recap. A Korean girl called her white co-worker a "dumb white dude from BumbleFuck, Southern State."

He did not want to report it.

I respected his decision; however, I felt like management should be aware of the situation in the event that Korean girl acted crazy on other issues. I specifically said, White man doesn't want anything to come of this; it's more of a 1st time shame on you 2nd time shame on me type situation. We handled it, Korean girl hasn't said anything inappropriate in a racial regard (but she has said inappropriate stuff to other people). The manager knew all the people, as she was on site for 3 days. She also happened to be black.

The way that the other white people are perceiving the situation is that

Nothing was done because one black told another black.

The reality: Nothing was done because a white didn't want for anything to happen.

The system works for anybody that would like to use it. And don't look at me like the Angry Black Woman when you fail to use the system.


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I'm irritated. I was on such a high this morning from The Date. He he, as I turned my thoughts to him, I started to smile.

How about I brought in the following CD's to enhance my amorous mood:
Avant - Private Room
Brian McKnight - Anytime
Floetry - Flo'Ology Mixtape Sampler
Amerie - Touch
Beyonce - Bday

The DATE

Wow. I mean WOW.

and on a different note. I recognize that dude ain't perfect...as in his "resume" ain't the best. Ex had a great resume, but left me unfulfilled. This dude's resume is a bit less than stellar; however, there are no gaps in the emotional connection thus far. I see potential in him.

And he invited me to his basketball game...how cute is that? He plays in some organized recreational league...I'mma go tomorrow and cheer him on.

He is so opposite of what I'm used to. It's so refreshing. I can breathe a sigh of relief.

Associates (c) Greg Real World Hollywood

Interestingly enough, the definition of Associate per dictionary.com was more liberal than I thought it would be. But what best captures the distinction between a friend and an associate is: having subordinate status; without full rights and privileges. Friend was defined as "a person you know well and regard with affection and trust"

There is a lot more to this that won't go on blogosphere. But basically, today is a one in which I saw that a friend needs to be called an associate.

Confession

I'm giddy about this new guy. I'll call him Borders. We met Friday night. His initial approach was all wrong and oh-so-typical. But as we continued talking, he felt more like a friend, instead of a dude that was trying to sleep with me. And typically I shy away from uber attractive people b/c they have some sense of entitlement. He recognizes that he's attractive, but he values his personality even more. He's excitable. I'm pretty calm and laid back, he's like a rambunctious little kid. He likes to lay out the world as he sees it (expectations). Like last night we had a conversation about "phone etiquette." As simple as it was, it's nice to understand what one perceives as polite and rude. He makes me laugh. He makes me talk. We talked 5 hours one night and 2.5 the next. I told him, I can't sustain that because I need sleep, but I thoroughly enjoy chatting it up with him. I'm trying to "play coy" and wait until he invites me out to do something...but quite frankly I want to see him again to make sure that my drunk eye wasn't working. I want to make sure that he finds me attractive.

Whatever, I might suggest to him that we meet up at Starbucks and or Borders for a mini date. (plus I want to feel up on his big burly biceps). I'm not into games...if he's taken aback by my forwardness - then he's not the one for me anyway.

In the spirit of George Carlin (R.I.P.)

Friday I met a young attractive fellow. Our first conversation was great. He secretly slipped out that he's somewhat of a conspiracy theorist. After listening to him skim the surface of some of his curiosities, I asked, "have you watched Zeitgeist?" His eyes got big and he felt like he hit the jackpot in me.

I was taken aback because usually young (28) hot guys don't hold my interest. I was adament in not putting out good time girl vibes, and I let him know...I'm not out here looking for "a good time." I want to get to know people and see if we are compatible. Well, we spent 5 hours talking on the phone last night, which is something I haven't done since I was in high school.

Most interesting is our view on religion. He first directed to a George Carlin clip on youtube which summarized his overall question about religion. Essentially, "So you want me to believe that there is a invincible man in the sky..." I found his views on religion to be even more interesting becasue contrary to me, he grew up going to church every Sunday. But we both concur that there is a lot to be questioned about religion (Christianity).

The following movie, Zeitgeist, is a conspiracy theorists dream movie. It is broken up into 3 parts 1) Religion 2) 9/11 and 3) Federal Reserve.

The religious part outlines the fact that Jesus was not the first figure to be born of a virgin...essentially the story of Jesus is borrowed from other religions / mythical stories. I don't think it's a coincidence that the Jesus is the "son" of God and the Sun used to be the most respected/worshiped physical object observed by those on earth. Most people are brought up in a church and discouraged from asking quesitons about religion. I've come to accept that my concept of faith is saying..."I may not believe in the literal sense of many things, but there is a powerful story with powerful lessons."

I'd suggest that you play the video in the background (listening to headphones). The first 10-15 minutes are pretty slow. Actually I suggest going straight to the 14th minute, as that's where the questioning first starts. If you watch between the 14th and 25th minute - really...what is your reaction? Did you already know some of that information? Do you think these things are coincidence?

Sometimes LOVE

feels like jail.

His grip on me...even from 800 miles away is paralyzing.

Dating SUCKS ASS - But Martin Luther is the best.

Yesterday I heard that my favorite male artist was performing in the city (as seen above). Figo and I had plans to watch a movie; however, I let him know that there was a change in plans for our date. He was game. Figo is the 35 year old who I met at work. Not the cutest; however, conversation is good and quite frankly, he makes me feel special.

So he takes me a nice restaurant. I'm carrying the conversation, which starts to annoy me. We move onto the topic of favorite things to eat / cook.

I tell a story about how I survived on Omelettes for 2 weeks when I first moved to ATL, therefore I take pride in cooking them.

He's like I have a story about Omelettes. ...he goes on to tell me about how he travels to Africa for work frequently and has to be careful about what he eats b/c his digestive system is sensitive.

Cool so far...right?

Then he says how one late midnight, he's reviewing the menu and sees an Omelette. He orders it. He eats its.

You ready for this????

"I ate it, and it made me have such a good BM that I ordered it 3 nights in a row."

SunFresh: Smiles politely, thinks...WTF did this fool just tell me that an omelette made him shit really good? Yes, this will be our last date.

The concert was wonderful. Martin Luther's voice is like hot chocolate on a cold winter day - it simply soothes the soul. AND he's sexier than a muffukka. Seriously, he is. The venue was really small and I was sitting in the front-center, so I know he saw me rocking out to his music. There is one song that he sang that used to bring me to tears because the lyrics hit me just right:

"Sometimes I want to feel like I'm the one in control. Take back every element of me that they stole. I'll be fine when I heal my mind body and soul. Until then take your time and make sure that you do it riiiiiight. Make your moves knowing that God is on our siiiiiide." (When you have a bad job...those lyrics fit the bill perfectly)

I got a picture with him.

Also, Kelly Love Jones performed. Look her up. I thoroughly enjoyed her music as well, I bought her CD right there at the concert.

Lastly, really...my stride was so STANK last night. My outfit was so HOT that random people on the street handed me compliments. I feel like I wasted a GREAT outfit. I will have to recycle that outfit and give it to the masses to be appreciated.

I'm going to look sexy tonight.

It's a blog thing, you wouldn't understand.

Lol - this is a reference to the fact that there was a joke that there needs to be a code amongst people in blog-world. I don't know if this holds true for everybody; however, I think there is a commonality amongst people that find/seek refuge in internet mediums.

At this time, I can't quite articulate what is comforting for me. Essentially, there are times, when I crave interaction without the action. Also, interaction via the internet is easily controlled. If somebody says something that you disagree with, you can debate, but you can also shut them off. And nobody's feelings get hurt. They are not vested in you, and you are not vested in them. You simply exchange ideas, but don't exchange emotion and/or feeling.

It's almost impossible to do this in person. Too many human elements come into play. On the nets, physical appearance rarely comes into play, you allow people to see you for who you are...and they are not distracted by the many imperfections that we all possess. So there is comfort. Ehh - I went WAYYY off topic. At least way off topic than what lead me to blog at this 2:09 am moment.

Tell 'Em Why You Mad...

1. There is no such thing as a secret and/or a confidant
2. Why is my cervix to the far right bottom? Where is the b*tch supposed to be?


Tell 'Em Why You Happy
1. Old Navy actually has some cute clothes!
2. Patience paid off, I bought this $80 dress for $30

On: Global Warming

Are you surprised / shocked by the flooding in Iowa?

I wasn't AT ALL. Not even one little bit surprised.

Where did you think Lake Lanier went? Clearly, it made it's way to Iowa.

If there are severe droughts in one part of the world, TRUST that there will be severe flooding.

FINALLY - THEY STEPPED UP TO THE PLATE

Except it's still only on internet world. As we used to say in elementary school

TAKE THIS AND PASS IT ALONG

You can't have him

And you can't have my unborn son or daughter either.

Can he have yours? Does he have yours?

In other news: Baracknophobia as defined by Jon Stewart!

R. Kelly Not Guilty Celebration Party!!!!

2NITE @ CHUCK E CHEESE

7pm - Until

Girls Free B4 9 w/ high school ID...

No Parents Please

After party hosted by Michael Jackson!!!!

So real talk...which will prolly go ignored, but hey I'll throw it out there.

For those of you who have gone to a psychologist/psychiatrist - what was the trigger that convinced you to go?

2008 Predictions

I'm going to predict that Osama Bin Laden will be found within 10 days of election day...by Bush himself personally, Chuck Norris style. Mark my words...and then pay me when I'm right.

When you hear

your own heart

break

the silence resonates so loudly.

What are you thankful to your father for?

So my favorite message board - I threw this question out. The responses are rather surprising... (feel free to leave your own perspective in the comments)

1. nothing, my biological didn't bother
1a. answer I expect from 80% of Black folk
1b. You kinda high balled it, it's ONLY 70% (SunFresh)
2. Being good lookin
3. All he ever asked was that I set a goal and put in all the work I could.
4. my father is more like a little brother
5. so much
6. i could write a book about my dad but basically i love him
7. not a damn thing
8. for being there to provide a 2 earner income, thus statistically making it much more likely that I would graduate from
high school and not end up in prison/jail
9. For being a perfect example of everything a father and husband should be. Just about everything I know and have learned about being a great dad and a great husband I learned from the example put forth by my father
10. for teaching me to be frugal and make good decisions about money"
11. leaving me the hell alone...until this month
12. getting me the FUCK away from my mother
13. For reconciling with my Mother after literally 22 years of beef. They never got divorced because their respective piety didn't allow for that, but they would go months under the same roof without speaking to each other....well, last week they officially reconciled and are going to counseling.
14. For letting me cry when i needed to
15. for making me a fighter
16. He made me feel special and valuable
17, For caring when don't nobody else care.
18. so its father's day?
19. for encouraging me to be the best person i can be.
20. I ALWAYS felt loved by my father....
21. for showing me what it looks like
22. he put real fear in me of disrespecting seniority...not the most normal/happy of upbringings, but he did the best he knew how to and we're on okay terms these days
23. for signin those adoption papers
24. soo much,but to make it simple,I'm thankful that I know what to expect in a husband and and I'm thankful that he continually went/and still goes out of his way to make sure I have the best life possible.
25. 1) education 2) travel the world 3) pursue inner happiness
26. for liking the Simpsons
27. child support payments never came late
28. Fuck you, dad

AS for my thoughts on today. My thanks are all practical, as my father is a practical dude. The following song really doesn't summarize how I feel; although I wish it did.



Or if you are hurting today because your mother was the only father you knew, this song captures the pain pretty accurately:


If you don't have a father...embrace him as your father:

Admission

I can be brash, I can be a bitch. For example, just the other night while out at a bar/lounge, this chic asked to put out a cigarette butt at my table. My response upon her puffing a few times before she put it out...Ummm, that's bad for your health, but more importantly mine.

At times, I have offensive thoughts and have reckless delivery of them. Especially on the internet where there are no faces to receive the thoughts...just screen names and or lurkers. One thing, I don't apologize for my thoughts, but I have got to be mindful of the delivery.

Lol - geez I'll probably end up being an ornery old lady. The type that says whatever comes to mind and I'll give you a daring look to respond to a frail lil' 80 year old lady.

errr okey dokey. apologies...I mean no harm.

Some stuff never changes

I find too much comfort in the internet at times. But I learn a lot from people and get alternative perspectives because strangers are much more willing to swap information than people you casually meet out and about. So there is a certain realism you get. Not saying that in real life people lie, but you're more likely to have a controversial conversation via the net than within the first couple of meetings with a person.

So one of my internet buddies hits me on IM - he was about to head out to his lady friend's house for the evening. Below is the following convo:

Buddy: my parents hate my guts for it...cuz of the whole skin color thing
SunFresh: thats a shame, so they're voting mccain?
Buddy: During the primary, my mom said only this. "you know who to vote for" which = clinton
SunFresh: i mean talkin politics people are entitled to their opinions; but, that's a sad reality tho' that they're tripping over who you fancy
Buddy: i mean like, my parents are pissed about the color of her skin...and that's it.
SunFresh: I can imagine that it is tough.
Buddy: how did you handle that?
SunFresh: You mean dating a white guy?
Buddy: yeah...or am i taking a guess
SunFresh: Lol, the last time I dated a white guy was middle school, i've been in the south so long
Buddy: i so don't believe you lol
SunFresh: they don't appraoch me, it's very divided down here; however, i'm open to it
Buddy: but what about when you went to PWI University?
SunFresh: still very divided
Buddy: meh...i thought my university was still like that when i met my girl
SunFresh: they'd flirt, but there was no seriousness to it
Buddy: i mean, if, lets say i saw you out. i'd've stepped to you and felt like there was no problem with it.
SunFresh: Lol, thanks. It's messed up but even my middle school boyfriend, who was white said that his mother was on some, "if you have children with this girl, our blood-line..."
Buddy: OMG....yo.....that's EXACTLY what i'm hearing

In case you didn't quite follow that...My buddy is a white guy that is crazy about a black woman. His parents pretty much reject him because he is in love with a black woman and are concerned that their blood line will be "ruined" (if you will) if he marries and has children with her. SERIOUSLY? I mean really, what is the fear that his parents hold? That their grandchildren won't be entitled to certain things? Might deal with discrimination? And really, I want to be a fly on the wall when the parent is having this conversation with their sun. Do they beat around the bush and imply that they are concerned about having a bi-racial grandchild or do they flat out say...we'd like to preserve the Aryan nation, do not taint the purity. Either way how selfish!

It's amazing that we can be on the brink of having a bi-racial president when there are people that think like this.

Shameless Plug #2

I get uber excited when I meet people my age doing big things. So last night I went to a jazzy lil' spot which hosted a young woman's launching of her clothing line. The articles are simple and easy to wear, yet sexy. Plus I love her positivity. Beautiful women doing beautiful things :-)

Check her out at Speak Life

R.I.P. Tim Russert

Never have I cried like this over somebody I didn't know. You entertained me every Sunday morning. I felt connected with Grandma while watching you.

Honestly, I haven't cried like this over death since Grandma.

Shameless Plug

I'm so proud of my fellow alumn, even though we didn't really hang out, nor do we talk now. I absolutely enjoy the website of which she is the editor. Everything is so relevant. There are great links on her page. I liked the following articles and / or links. Please indulge yourself:

Black Women

Father's Day Good Read's for fathers

Her blogazine is my daily routine.

Funny Friday - Gasoline Universal Symbol

Funny Friday

Humor yourself for a second. Watch the following video on mute, but set it to the following lyrics a la 50 cents. (Works best when you set the video to mute, but play the offsetting song out loud).

Now, usually I'm not a fan of 50, but these lyrics are so ridiculous that I laugh and sing them in a Frank Sinatra voice.

This is a tribute to SunFresh & SunFresh brother's sense of humor. We would flip the TV to CSPAN, put it on mute then play Wu-Tang. The effect was that you had this stiff old people that appeared to be rapping hardcore lyrics about slangin' rocks in the inner streets of NYC.



I take quarter water sold it in bottles for 2 bucks,
Coca-Cola came and bought it
For billions, what the f**k?
Have a baby by me; baby
Be a millionaire
I write the check before the baby comes,
Who the f**k cares
Im stanky rich
Ima die tryna spend this sh*t
Southside's up in in this b*tch
Yeah i smell like the vault
I used to sell dope
I did play the block
Now i play on boats
In the south of France
Baby, St. Tropez
Get a tan? im already black
Rich? I'm already that

If your cup runneth over, I'm in need of a refill.

People are surprised when I talk about my relationship with God. I'm very cynical when it comes to religion, appreciate the Bible but wouldn't swear that every incident written actually happened, and am very open to learning about and accepting certain aspects of different religions (especially eastern ones, when was the last time you heard about a Bhuddist and Hindu killing each other in the name of their God?).

And I don't pretend to understand how God works. My concept of faith is accepting that I don't know - for example, I don't believe in Adam and Eve as it was written, but I don't believe in the "Big Bang" theory either. My faith leads me to believe that God created this place called earth and all on it - I don't care how, I don't care if I never know. All that matters is that we are here.

Me'shell Ndegeocello's lyrics on "Fellowship," summarize my concept of God:
You believe
Great god gonna come from the sky
Take away everything,
And make everybody feel high
But if you know what life is worth
You'll look for your's here on earth
. . . it's at hand

'cause if you believe that your god
Is better than another man
How you gonna end
All your suffering?
'cause if you believe that your god

Essentially, to me, God is the connection felt amongst all of God's creations (people, earth ect..) You could throw your hands up to the sky and "hope" for world peace...or you could donate time/money/effort to some cause that promotes it. The latter, IMO, is how a person actively connects to God.

So anywho - got a bit off subject. I'm not going to lie. 2008 has been one of my most miserable years EVER as an adult. I need turn around. Soo...if your cup runneth over with positivity, my cup needs a bit of filling!

Faux News - STFU

They continue down this path of subtle racism (or perhaps it's rather blatent).

At first I read the byline regarding them calling Michelle Obama, Barack's Baby Mama, and was marginally annoyed. But then it started to eat at me.

Even if you aren't keen on Obama, you should take offense to this. She is no more a "baby mama," than Cindy McCain is a cunt (FYI I don't use this word, there is a post below in which the associates of J.McCain reported that he called his wife one, so I've been over-using it in that context).

Black women are constantly portrayed as good for nothings in media. Here we have a Ivy League educated woman, that is in what appears to be a loving relationship and has a beautiful family...and she is reduced to the name that is played out on Maury's show?

Times like this, I question...what can I, SunFresh, do to stop this? Any suggestions?

Just wanted to link back for future reference

When I was single, I decided I wouldn't marry a man unless I could be proud if we had a son who turned out exactly like him (Dooce's website)

Shits n' Giggles - 6/11

There are several passionate crazy people who are so upset about their Democratic hopeful losing that they'd up and either become Independent and not vote, or vote for McCain. Please sign the following pledge so that your fellow American's know where you stand on issues.

I thought Arianna Huffington's commentary on the issue was insightful. At least as it pertains to reproductive rights.

Or Tim Wise: Your Whiteness is Showing is prose that makes you think...REALLY disgruntled HRC supporters, what ARE you thinking? No, REALLY?

It doesn't matter

McCain is his own worst enemy. Today when he was asked when American troops could start returning home, he responded," No, but that's not too important. What's important is the casualties in Iraq"

Um, if your husbands/wives, brothers/sisters, fathers/mothers our troops remain in Iraq, how will they NOT be the casualties?

So apparently, he's OLD and doesn't know how to use a computer. WTF? They've been around for 20 years or so. I suppose, your C*NT of a wife is supposed to learn these things and be your secretary too?

35 Articles of Impeachment

35 Articles of Impeachment

It's a pretty DRY read, but to summarize, Representative Kucinich, moved to impeach president G.W. Bush, based on 35 improper acts as president. Not 1....but 35. He covers everything from Iraq / Energy / Medicaid / Voting Rights etc.

I've never been a fan of C-SPAN, but I shit you not, I watched all 4 hours of his deliverance.

I respect Kucinich above any other representative at this point. Thank you, KucinichSo many people have resigned and/or keep on steaming along, knowing that they were lied to and/or mislead. Kucinich has declared that he does not accept being lied to and made a move do to the right thing, despite it being an unpopular move.

You've been HOSED

Again if your plan is to vote for McCain, please do enough research to ensure that he would not perpetuate these lies by keeping people close to him that are in the Bush Administration. Please ensure that you align with him on actionable issues, such as healthcare. Do not be spiteful that your candidate did not win and lay dormant and/or vote for McCain just because you like him as a person better than Obama. In doing so, you fail me...your fellow citizen. I've been lied to, those who represent me have been lied to...so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE, at least do enough research on McCain to know that he will not continue to sell out to the those in power in the current republican party.

As a republican, you tend to be against taxes because you feel that if one profits, we all profit. So I guess it would make perfect sense to you as a republican (and Independent willing to vote for McCain) that the GOP blocked a bill that would have incresaed taxes on excessive profits made by the largest Oil Corporations.

Tiers of Love

That's right, Tiers, not Tears.

Tier 1: Two people meet, are sold on love before they are sold on each other. They get married, get to know each other and realize that they actually don't like each other and divorce. (If 50% of marriages end in divorce, then I'd say approximately 50% of the people have this type of relationship).

Tier 2: Two people meet and have a solid companionship. Sometimes they are totally in love with each other, sometimes they are not. Their feeling of connectedness throughout the relationship ebs and flows. They function well together, could raise a family, but you rarely see them all googly eyed over each other. They love each other all the time, but aren't always in love with each other. However, on a really low trough in the relationship, they might decide to divorce. (I'd say that about 45% of marriages are like this).

Tier 3: Two people meet and are in love, and stay IN LOVE. They greet each other like the first time every time. They might even eb and flow a bit; however, it's not for prolonged period of times. And if there ever is a low trough, they stick it out because their love is that resiliant and strong. (I'd say about 5% of marriages are like this).

Translate into a dating world...I think folks expect Tier 3; when really according to the SunFresh Institution of Statistics, Tier 3 is only reserved for 5% of the population.

My mother often laughs when I complain about Mr. 2-Year man, "he's this but he isn't that." She is cynical (which cynicism is born out of truth) and is like, "NO man is perfect, so if you expect him to be, you be waiting for a LONG LONG time." I can honestly say that I've adjusted my expectations for men. NOTE that I said adjusted, not lowered. Men communicate differently and have a logic-based view of the world. (I'm using generalizaitons, this would be forever long if I put in every caveat). I can't expect for a man to communicate and understand me emotionally the same way that a friend would. A LOT of my frustration with Mr. 2-Year man has been that he doesn't understand me emotionally at times. Perhaps he's just not supposed to, and that would place us in Tier 2, instead of Tier 3. Which, quite honestly, I'd rather have a Tier 2 and start building a life with somebody now, than wait until I'm 40+ and find my 5% Tier 3.

Perhpas I do have *issues*

So on one of my favorite message boards a girl posts a lighthearted subject.

"It's really not okay for a grown man to initiate footsie. i don't care how sexy you think your man feet are. i'll give exceptions for spooning/after sex situations, albeit hesitantly. but really, if you're on my couch watching a movie, and i am at the opposite end, don't reach your feet over to play coyly with mine. or put them in my lap. especially when i don't like you like that, nor have shown any signs to like you like that"

My initial response, "errr uhhh - why is a dude that you don't like 'like that' at your house on your couch with you alone? that's how chics get date raped."

And I was dead serious.

Of course this perspective comes from a personal situation in which I was physically assaulted (not raped, but I easily could have been). I was younger, thought it was cool to chill with a dude and not feel obligated to "put out." You could say that you should never feel obligated to put out. It's not about obligation - it's about if I send certain signals to you, I shant be surprised if you pick up on them and get a bit out of line. To me, a signal is calling you up and inviting you over in the evening on a weekend night.

So as a lesson learned, I have a personal rule...if I'm not open to doing something physically with you, there is NO reason for us to be alone, in the house, at night, watching a movie. That's what my girlfriends are for.

Lots of folks have told me to seek counseling b/c I have such a jaded view of men at times. But I'm like, this rule will NEVER change and I'm going to make it clear to my daughter - do not put yourself in a situation in which you could lose control of the situation. Sure some stuff is unavoidable. Perhaps I should teach her that men perceive action differently at times. I don't know what I'll really teach her. But I will not be comfortable her being alone with a man at night watching a movie that is twice her size and four times her strength with whom she has no desire to be physical with.

I toy with counseling over this issue cuz it permeates many aspects of my life and how I related to men. But errr - I just don't wanna *crosses arms like a 5 year old and pouts*

So apparently McCain's wife is a Trollop and a CUNT

According to McCain. I was parusing through blog world and saw a commentor mention this lil' reported fact.

Here is questioned by a reporter
Here is the story as reporting by Huffington Post

Trollup was a new word to me. According to Dictionary.com a trollop is a woman that sleeps with many men for money.

Umm - I think that endearing political fist bump trumps being called a trollop and cunt.

Please make sure to tell at least one person about this - as the media fails to take this and run with it.

Perhaps this is a non-issue...however, this tells you a LOT about a person's character. You are supposed to respect your wife above all other people (right?). If you disrespect your wife, I can't imagine what might come out of your mouth to some of these leaders of opposing nations. We need to reconcile, not further alienate the USA.

Wanted to memorialize this...

Your lover kisses you and you feel a tremor in the back in your knees.
The synopsis fire, sending orders to move your legs...move your arms.
he's the one for you.
he's the man of your dreams.
he's your one and only.
And you know because the smell of him makes your head swim
Because you get a physical jolt
Everytime he sends a glance your way.
he touches you here [hand]
...and you feel it here [throb in the clit].
You touch him anywhere and
You feel it everywhere.

- Alice @ The L Word (cept the he's are she's and the him's are hers)