When was that last time you were touched?

With tenderness with no hidden motives? Apparently, it's been a while. I found this article to be so on point. Here is one line from it:

A refrain I hear frequently from female friends and clients is that once the sexual passion has waned, affectionate touch goes out of the window too. “I can't give him a simple cuddle without him thinking I want sex!” women moan. That's because he learnt not to have “emotional” hugs long ago. So when a woman offers him one, he thinks she's signalling full-on passion.