Men - how do (or do you) deal with a woman who has chosen to be celibate?
I know 1) not a lot of men visit this blog and 2) not a lot of men would be inclined to keep it really real and say, "I stay with her, but get broke-off on the side."
But what if you were in the mood and just needed your release. Would you exercise patience? Or would you have a bit of fun on the side and justify it in your head as, "well, I just needed it, it didn't mean anything."
Women - What say you on the matter if you've been in a relationship while celibate.
1 comment:
I think one must first ask how that person came to be celibate so that they can truly understand their decision.
Second, one must see what the definition of celibacy means to that person. Celibacy could mean no physical interaction or it could be other things such as no penetration but yes to oral stimulation.
Last, once that level of intimacy is determined, you have to see if you can handle that pressure. I think the older we get, the easier it gets to look past the physical but I know temptation of stimulation can make a strong man succumb.
Thanks for the food for thought.
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