You're thinking, "Geez, SunFresh...cut the brother some slack that's a beautiful flower arrangement." You know what...it sure is. I LOVE roses. They smell wonderful and are very pleasing to the eyes. But then you must realize that the following was attached to the arrangement:
I had to walk through the halls of my big company with that sorry ass I'm sorry balloon. WTF.
And no, what he did is not forgivable...at least not by me in the near-future. I can give grace and not hate him, and I honestly don't hate him. I just don't want him in my life. But my acceptance of his sorrow doesn't equate to...I'll give you one last chance to prove something to me, marry you and live happily ever after.
Because for me...there would be no happiness. I tried to fool myself once into thinking...welp SunFresh, you're feeling ripe towards marriage and don't like the dating scene, he's successful, attractive...a great Mona Lisa effect. Perfect from far away. But then you get in close to examine the reality and truths and find flaws. Unfortunately these flaws don't make our relationship a work of art...it's simply stupid shit.
Ladies and gentlemen...when it's done. Let it be done.
5 comments:
I would've popped the ballon in the bathroom after you picked them up. Better yet, pop it now, it'll make you feel better. :) XOXO Guber
I popped it this morn. One of my confidants at work graciously brought me her scissors and we had a snip-snip party :-)
Well...he can only drive you crazy if he allows you to. Nice gesture, but you're over it. If all contact is cut, then he'll eventually give up.
That should have been "he can only drive you crazy if you allow him too." grrr
I would have walked directly out of BCS and gone the breakroom in the buidling and dropped them in the trash. Or I would have taken them down to reception or the copy people to enjoy. I would not have taken them to my desk. And the balloon really would have hit the trash. I hate dudes that think a $30 flower arrangment is a bandaid.
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